Hello dear soulmate, dear soulmate,
A very big topic at the moment is freedom and it is often postulated that thoughts are free. And yes, the thoughts are free. But to get "free" thoughts, it is sometimes a long way.
Free thoughts are important for our creative process, for shaping our reality. Our thoughts are the starting point. Are they still trapped in the "Golden Cage", we just think we are free and can do anything. But the truth is that we are in the cage and trapped. We can only perceive freedom through our bars. So everything seems possible, since we can see everything and yet don't move because we ignore the bars of the cage.
These bars are built from our beliefs, our programming, and our patterns. Without realizing it, these three great prisons influence our thinking and, as a result, our actions, our speech and our feelings. From this we create our reality and wonder why our inner wealth somehow never wants to show itself on the outside. We are still too poor, we don't live our calling, we still don't have the fulfilling relationship etc.
But you know, change starts with ourselves and if you get to the bottom of these three prisons, then everything can change freely to where you want it to go.
It is therefore important for me to give you a small summary to take with you on your way. The next three areas have often been shaped primarily by our family (father, mother, siblings, grandparents or those who raised you), partners, friends, teachers.
We carry a lot of this around with us unconsciously, have internalized it and live an image that someone else had of us.
The invitation to become more and more aware of this in order to be able to "freely" decide what you want to keep and what may finally go.
Beliefs are our inner "I Am"s. As a child, all I am it still appear within the realm of possibility. But we get to know many I Am's in the course of our lives that actually hurt and belittle us, like "I'm ugly", "I'm evil", "I'm clumsy", "I'm stupid", "I am too fat", "I am.... (please insert appropriate)" –
Suggestion: which "It's me" from your childhood and youth still live in you that make you small and prevent you from showing your inner fullness on the outside?
Pattern is all of how you react and act in your life. We often learn again in our family environment how the game of life works. We adopt the patterns of our family, for example how to live relationships, how to deal with money, how to think and talk about ourselves and others.
We subconsciously internalize this from an early age and live it out without being aware of it (or beware: we always remain the rebellious child and always go against it - that doesn't make us a free person either!) - who knows him not the nice sentence:
"I will never be like... (please insert something appropriate)" - the first person that comes to mind here is the person you probably most resemble or whose behavior you have unconsciously adopted or against still rebelling Getting to the bottom of the pattern is often the most difficult thing on our path to becoming conscious and sometimes also the most painful. But this is the only way we can truly become free
Programming is the classic " you do it like this!". We learn this from an early age. And certainly many "mans" are also sensible in order to move sensibly in a society, but many "mans" are also simply nonsense chewed up without thinking. "You have to have a degree to be successful!", "You have to be like this to be lovable or desirable", "You have to have a million to be considered rich" and so on... maybe you immediately think of different "mans"... these are often the ones that live inside you. We are welcome to question every "man" in order to open our "golden cage" and experience true freedom.
And do not forget: "Do what you want - harm no one"
With that in mind, love
your jennifer
